Prutha Bhosle
Happily married couples have become scarce in the society. There is no guarantee to any relationships nor do they come in warrantee cards. So, be prepared to what life plans for you.
When women here ‘I want a divorce’ from their spouses, they tend to break down completely. Quite natural! But there are other better ways of dealing with this phase.
In hassle, women mainly make several mistakes during this time. These mistakes directly affect their living as well. Following are few tips on how you should prevent mistakes during divorce.
Consultation
There are free consultations available while you overcome the phase of divorce. Avoid going to these. Instead, opt for a legal advice as a paid one is always better and helpful than the one that is offered for free.
Make a budget
Plan a budget according to your needs. Jot down the amount you need in reality and then present it in court. This will help you in getting a bigger picture of what exactly you desire and deserve.
Be your own boss
Do not let your attorney take control over all the decisions without even informing you. Keep yourself updated about what is happening in the procedure and make decisions accordingly.
Drink your anger
Just because your former husband is having an affair, do not try to stoop to his level in order to get even. This is the time to act smart and think wisely. Keep yourself away from all the controversies that may be hazardous in getting you divorced. Yes divorce leads to emotional isolation but this would not be the correct time in falling in to love or even having flings. Wait for the right time!
Don’t believe everything
If you think your husband is lying about any assets, consult your lawyer. Your lawyer will suffice you with full information that will unravel the truth.
Never pressurize kids
The biggest mistake a to-be divorced couple makes is to force their kids to take sides. Those kids are already being through a lot than you can imagine. Don’t rub it more. Let them choose their guardian on their own. They are bound to make the most apt decision than even you and your spouse can make.
Keep your cool
A woman suffers through a lot during divorce, be it financially or emotionally. Hence, make sure you mediate and do things that will make you happy and help rejuvenate. The more you love yourself and your life, the faster you move on.
