Men have the tendency to initiate things. He is a ‘nobody’ to you and suddenly he becomes the most important thing in your life. How does that happen really?
It is some sort of voodoo that men try on women and it actually does prove successful. Women do fall for this. But what happens next? He fails to commit once he knows you are in his pockets. Different kinds of men have different reasons to define this problem. But the commonest reasons are listed below in case you are looking for some obvious answers.
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Men are sensitive. Believe it or not! They are softer than any other woman on planet. There are chances he cannot commit to you as he has seen a bad phase earlier. It could probably be his girlfriend cheating on him or a heart-wrenching break-up. His feelings for you may be genuine but also he thinks of not hurting you by committing to you.
This is another great reason why he runs away from you. He has seen the worst times with his parents quarrelling all the time and this probably is the reason why he is sacred to make any promises to you. He has seen relationships failing and this is why he doesn’t believe in them anymore.
There are probabilities that he is just in love with your curvy body and sexy looks but not the attitude that you carry. This is just infatuation for him but you might think something deeper than what he feels.
You become so close to each other that he refuses to commit in order to not lose you in any possible way. He loves you too much to lose you. This is the most obvious hurdle you may face.
Friends with benefits
He is getting everything he needs without being engaged to you. This ‘everything’ includes all the ‘romantic’ needs. So if you are giving him all, there are chances he has made himself comfortable in that zone and hence does not want to go any further.
You are taking control
If he thinks that you are taking control over his life already, he will definitely repel. Rather than getting choked, he will prefer moving to other choices that prove better than what you are.