Before he dumps you, move on!

If often happens in relationships that things are not how you want them to be. You may feel at times that you are giving so much to the relationship, but your guy is not willing to come even half way. After reading these, you will know when is the time to move on.

1. Gone are those days

Love and mush are essential elements of any relationship. If these two things are missing in your relationship, that is probably the first sign. If his presence means nothing to you and you don’t even miss him when he is not around, vice-versa, it’s time to stop and think.

2. Fights are routine

When he randomly picks up silly fights, you should know it’s not working out. Honestly, no one likes fights and endless arguments. But if he doing that, and very frequently at that, there is a problem.

3. Conversations mean nothing

Gone or those days when you two used to chat for long hours over coffee or over the phone; when your day used to begin with his call and you used to wish good night to each other before crashing, but now if you two don’t feel like talking or are indulging in forced conversations, you should know things are not right and it surely means a break up is on the cards.

4. Your friends don’t matter to him

You had put in a lot of effort to ensure that he likes your friends and does not mind hanging out with them or you spending a lot of time with your friends. But suddenly, he does not approve of your friends, dislikes them, or talks bad things about them, your relationship is definitely going off track.

5. Not the guy you have known

If the emotional quotient has gone down, that’s the scariest bit. When you know he does not care for you, does not listen to what you are saying, has nothing to say to you, and if he comes across as an alien to you these days, you must know it’s time to move on.

6. Hangouts have become dull

When you started dating, you used to spend so much time together, you had plans for weekends, but now all that has changed, right? You must know a break up is imminent. If he is telling you he is tired,overworked and does not want to meet you, you must know where it is heading.

What do you think?

Written by Smita Diwan

Smita Diwan is a Media & Communication evangelist with 15+ years of steady growth. She has served across diverse verticals of Broadcast Journalism, Corporate Communications, Digital Media and Public Relations. A fitness enthusiast, Smita devotes her ‘rare’ free-time to yoga and meditation. As she strongly believes that the right balance is the key to steady growth.

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